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Jiu-Jitsu is a physically demanding sport that requires strength, flexibility, and resilience. Whether you’re a seasoned competitor or a newcomer to the mats, maintaining your body and preventing injuries is key to long-term success. That’s why at Del Mar Jiu-Jitsu Club, we provide all our adult members with access to a state-of-the-art fitness center, available 24/7 to accommodate your schedule.

Why Fitness Matters in Jiu-Jitsu

Jiu-Jitsu is often called a “thinking person’s sport,” but the physical aspect is equally important. Flexibility, strength, and conditioning directly impact your performance and your ability to execute techniques effectively. Maintaining a strong body reduces the risk of injury, helps you recover faster from training, and allows you to progress without interruption.

Our fitness center is equipped with everything you need to enhance your physical conditioning and support your Jiu-Jitsu journey. From cardio equipment to free weights, it’s the perfect place to complement your mat training and focus on mobility, strength, and endurance.

Cold Plunge: A Recovery Game-Changer

One of the standout amenities available to all our members is the cold plunge, a powerful recovery tool designed to help reduce inflammation and promote faster recovery after intense training. Cold water immersion helps flush out metabolic waste and promotes better circulation, which can relieve muscle soreness and stiffness. Incorporating a cold plunge into your routine will allow you to train harder and recover faster, ensuring that you’re always at your best.

Infrared Sauna: Relaxation and Muscle Relief

Our infrared sauna is another fantastic tool for maintaining your body and avoiding injury. Unlike traditional saunas, an infrared sauna uses light to penetrate the skin, helping to relax muscles and ease tension deep within your tissues. This promotes faster healing, improves flexibility, and encourages the release of toxins. Regular use of the sauna can significantly enhance your overall recovery, reduce muscle pain, and help you stay limber for your next class.

Stay Strong, Stay Healthy

At Del Mar Jiu-Jitsu Club, we are committed to helping you become the best version of yourself—on and off the mat. By incorporating our fitness center, cold plunge, and infrared sauna into your routine, you’re investing in your long-term health and wellness. Remember, the better you take care of your body, the longer you’ll be able to train, learn, and grow in Jiu-Jitsu.

Ready to take your recovery to the next level? Join Del Mar Jiu-Jitsu Club today and take full advantage of our world-class facilities designed to help you maintain your body and avoid injury!


Every parent has been there. Your child starts a new activity—Jiu-Jitsu, piano, soccer, you name it—and within a few weeks (or sometimes days), they say they want to quit. Maybe it’s too hard. Maybe they’re not having fun. Maybe they didn’t win right away or they don’t feel “good” at it. And as a parent, it’s tempting to give in. After all, we don’t want to force our kids to do something they don’t enjoy… right?

But what if letting them quit is doing more harm than good?

Quitting Early Sends a Message That Effort Doesn’t Matter

When we allow our kids to quit something simply because it’s uncomfortable or challenging, we teach them that it’s okay to walk away when things get tough. The problem is, life is tough. School gets hard. Jobs get hard. Relationships get hard. Jiu-Jitsu, like life, is full of setbacks and obstacles. But unlike many other activities, Jiu-Jitsu gives children a safe, structured space to face those obstacles—and overcome them.

When a child learns to stick it out through the difficult moments in class—whether it’s learning how to shrimp, tie their belt, or deal with the emotions of a tough sparring round—they are building mental and emotional resilience. Letting them quit too early short-circuits that growth.

Psychologically, Quitting Can Trigger a Pattern

There’s a deeper layer too. Repeated quitting builds a behavioral loop that sticks: discomfort → avoidance → relief. That relief becomes addictive. Instead of learning that effort leads to improvement, they learn that quitting is the way to escape feeling challenged, anxious, or “not good enough.”

Over time, that mindset can seep into other areas: schoolwork, friendships, future jobs, and more. Kids start to define themselves not by what they can overcome, but by what they avoid.

So What Happens When You Don’t Let Them Quit?

Something incredible.

They struggle. They cry. They whine. But then—they adapt. They realize they’re stronger than they thought. They learn that feelings of failure are just temporary and that growth is on the other side of effort. They develop discipline, pride, and a sense of identity rooted in perseverance, not avoidance.

We’ve seen it over and over again here at Del Mar Jiu-Jitsu Club. The kids who wanted to quit early on often turn out to be the ones who end up competing, helping coach the younger classes, and becoming the most confident leaders on the mat.

Final Thoughts

If your child is currently training and hitting a rough patch—good. That means they’re learning. Help them push through. Encourage them, support them, and remind them that quitting is not the only option.

And if you’re a parent who’s been thinking about getting your child into Jiu-Jitsu, now is the perfect time to start. Let them experience the challenge, the growth, and the confidence that comes from stepping on the mat and sticking with it.

Enroll your child in a free trial class today at Del Mar Jiu-Jitsu Club.
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Supporting your child in Jiu-Jitsu isn’t about coaching them from the sidelines—it’s about trusting the process, encouraging their effort, and letting the coaches do their job. At Del Mar Jiu-Jitsu Club, we create a structured learning environment where kids can focus, grow, and develop confidence. When parents step back and allow their child to fully engage in class without distraction, they get the best out of their training. Learn how to support your child’s Jiu-Jitsu journey the right way!

This past Saturday at Jiu-Jitsu World League, one of our young competitors reminded us of the incredible lessons that Jiu-Jitsu teaches about resilience. His journey through the competition wasn’t just about medals—it was about perseverance, growth, and heart.

The Emotional Rollercoaster of Competing

Competition can be an emotional experience, especially for kids. After a tough loss in his first match, our student was shaken and overwhelmed. Losing is never easy, and it’s normal to feel discouraged in those moments.

But the real test of character isn’t in avoiding setbacks—it’s in how we respond to them. With some encouragement and support from Professor Mike, he was able to refocus and find joy in the process again. By the time he stepped back onto the mats for his second match, his excitement and determination had returned.

Rising to the Challenge

His second match was for third place in his bracket, and he gave it everything he had. He demonstrated incredible skill, securing back control multiple times and attempting several arm bars. His persistence paid off when he finished with a perfectly executed arm bar to claim victory. The pride and joy on his face said it all—this was more than just a win; it was a triumph of resilience.

What Jiu-Jitsu Teaches About Resilience

This story is a testament to why Jiu-Jitsu is such a powerful tool for personal growth, especially for children. Competing isn’t just about winning; it’s about learning how to navigate challenges, handle emotions, and keep pushing forward even when things feel tough.

In Jiu-Jitsu—and in life—setbacks are inevitable. But with resilience, guidance from supportive mentors, and a strong sense of community, anything is possible.

Join Our Community

At Del Mar Jiu-Jitsu Club, we’re committed to helping our students grow into confident, resilient individuals both on and off the mats. If your child is ready to learn life-changing skills through Jiu-Jitsu, we’d love to welcome you to our academy.

📍 2120 Jimmy Durante Blvd #121, Del Mar, CA 92014
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Let’s work together to build skills that go far beyond competition day. Click here to sign your child up for a free class TODAY!

If your child has started their Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu journey, you might find yourself wondering: Should they compete? At Del Mar Jiu-Jitsu Club, we understand that this is a big decision for many parents. While some children are excited to test their skills in a competition setting, others might find the idea of stepping onto the mat in front of a crowd intimidating. The truth is, whether your child competes or not is entirely up to them (and you) — and either choice is perfectly okay!

In this blog, we’ll dive into the benefits of competition for kids, why it’s not necessary for everyone, and how we support both competitors and non-competitors alike at our academy.

The Benefits of Competition for Kids

1. Building Confidence

One of the most significant benefits of competing is that it can help kids develop confidence. Stepping onto the mat in front of peers, coaches, and parents is no small feat, and it takes courage. Win or lose, the experience of trying their best can help children learn that they are capable of more than they thought.

2. Learning to Overcome Challenges

Competition introduces children to healthy challenges. In the controlled environment of a tournament, kids learn to deal with pressure, manage nerves, and keep going even if things don’t go their way. These are skills that will serve them well beyond the world of Jiu-Jitsu.

3. Accelerated Learning

For children who are looking to take their skills to the next level, competition can be a great motivator. It challenges them to focus, train hard, and sharpen their techniques. Plus, competing against other children of similar skill levels gives them an opportunity to see how far they’ve come.

4. Developing Sportsmanship

At Del Mar Jiu-Jitsu Club, we emphasize good sportsmanship, whether it’s shaking hands with an opponent after a tough match or learning how to gracefully accept a loss. Competing helps kids understand that it’s not just about winning, but also about respecting others and growing as a person.

5. Feeling a Sense of Accomplishment

The thrill of stepping onto the mat, giving it their all, and hearing the cheers from their teammates can be an incredibly rewarding experience for a child. It builds pride in their hard work and effort, whether they walk away with a medal or not.

Why Competition Isn’t for Every Child

1. Enjoying the Process

Not every child is interested in competing, and that’s perfectly fine. Some kids simply enjoy the art of Jiu-Jitsu, learning new techniques, and making friends. They might prefer the structure of regular classes where they can learn at their own pace, without the added pressure of a tournament.

2. Different Motivations

Many parents enroll their children in Jiu-Jitsu for reasons like self-defense, physical fitness, or simply to build confidence and discipline. Your child can still achieve all of these benefits without ever competing. They can develop the same skills, build friendships, and grow as individuals without the need to test themselves in a competitive environment.

3. The Importance of Having Fun

At Del Mar Jiu-Jitsu Club, we believe that the primary focus for kids should be having fun and enjoying the journey. If the idea of competing feels like a burden to your child or takes away their joy for the sport, it may not be the right path for them. The last thing we want is for kids to feel pressured or stressed about their training.

Our Approach at Del Mar Jiu-Jitsu Club

We don’t push competition on any of our students. For us, Jiu-Jitsu is about helping kids grow, both on and off the mats. However, if your child shows an interest in competing, we’re fully prepared to provide the support and guidance they need to succeed. With world-class instructors, including world champions, on our team, we have the expertise to help your child achieve their goals in competition. Our coaches will help them sharpen their techniques, develop a strategy, and build the confidence to perform their best in a tournament.

At the same time, we equally celebrate the achievements of our students who focus on enjoying their training in class. Whether your child is looking to be a fierce competitor or simply wants to enjoy learning something new, we have a place for them here.

Finding the Right Path for Your Child

Ultimately, the decision to compete should come from your child’s own interests and enthusiasm. At Del Mar Jiu-Jitsu Club, we support whatever path they choose. We encourage kids to try competition if they’re curious, but we also emphasize that it’s not necessary to be successful in Jiu-Jitsu. Every child’s journey is unique, and our goal is to help them grow into confident, resilient individuals — whether they ever compete or not.

Ready to Explore Jiu-Jitsu for Your Child?

Whether your child dreams of becoming a champion or just wants to have fun and make new friends, Del Mar Jiu-Jitsu Club offers a supportive and positive environment for everyone. Sign up for a free trial class today and see why our families love being part of our community!

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We’ve all been there: pushing through that extra round, staying on the mats until the lights go out, or thinking, “I’ll feel fine tomorrow” (when we really, really won’t). But in Jiu-Jitsu, rest and recovery aren’t just something you “squeeze in” when you’re not training—they’re what keep you strong, sharp, and injury-free. Here’s why hitting pause is just as important as rolling hard.

1. Muscles Need Time to Rebuild

Jiu-Jitsu isn’t a light workout. It’s full of intense moments where your muscles get seriously tested. After training, your muscles go into rebuild mode, and they need rest to repair micro-tears, which is how they grow stronger. Rest days give your body the downtime it needs to recover, come back stronger, and reduce the chance of injury.

2. Your Brain Needs Recovery Too

Believe it or not, mental recovery is just as crucial. When you’re training, you’re absorbing techniques, strategies, and the adrenaline rush that Jiu-Jitsu brings. Giving your brain time to unwind helps you retain what you’ve learned and keeps you mentally sharp when you’re back on the mats. A rested brain picks up on details, responds faster, and just…works better!

3. Sleep Is a Jiu-Jitsu Superpower

If you want to improve your game, prioritize sleep. Sleep is where the magic happens—muscle repair, memory consolidation, and a refresh for your immune system all take place while you’re catching z’s. Aim for 7-9 hours a night, and see how it levels up your performance.

4. Prevent Burnout with Active Recovery

Rest doesn’t have to mean lying around (though that’s good, too!). Try active recovery like stretching, yoga, or light movement to get your blood flowing and help ease muscle stiffness. Active recovery days are a way to rest without being totally sedentary, which also keeps you mentally engaged and ready to roll again.

5. Stay in the Game for the Long Haul

Jiu-Jitsu isn’t a sprint; it’s a marathon. By respecting your body’s need for rest, you’re investing in a longer, healthier Jiu-Jitsu journey. Avoiding overtraining means you’ll stay healthier, happier, and ready to go whenever you’re on the mats.

The Bottom Line: Listen to Your Body

Sometimes it’s hard to step away from the mats, but remember: rest today means you can roll tomorrow. Listen to your body’s signals—if it’s asking for a break, give it one. Embrace rest as part of the journey, and you’ll see that it’s not just about training hard; it’s about training smart.

Ready to train hard and rest hard? We’ve got the mats waiting for you at Del Mar Jiu-Jitsu Club.

Level Up Your Jiu-Jitsu Game with a Training Log

Are you looking to take your Jiu-Jitsu training to the next level? One simple but effective tool can help you track your progress, identify areas for improvement, and stay motivated: a training log.

By recording your workouts, you can see how far you’ve come and celebrate your achievements.